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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 06:15

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do a lot of women have a crush on my boyfriend when they know he is in a relationship with me? I am starting to feel insecure too. What should I do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How was your first cuckolding experience as a husband?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do flat earthers think using globetrotter, globetard, and other insults will make the educated arguer fall for the silly flat-earth belief?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What do porn stars do when they get old?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

You found a love potion, and your friend tried to use it on an attractive popular girl, but he accidentally dropped it on the neighbors dog. Now the dog won't stop following him. How would you help him?

Procrastinates a lot.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why does Christianity push reconciliation after a partner cheats? Mine had a 7-year affair with someone half my age. He cheated and lied. He is not the same to me.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Is it right to visit any shrine or tomb in Islam?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why are white women so hard to date?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why are so many US conservatives in this day and age still against racial mixing? They won't say it in public, but they are still against the mixing between Blacks and whites? Why?

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).